A Playful Tug

Some men ask me what lesbians find physically attractive in other women. I've known gents who were proud to be "breast men" or "ass men" or "leg men," and I can completely appreciate that. I think all lesbians have different likes when it comes to women, the same way straight men do. But oh, do I have a weakness for a nice, round bottom.

Granted, the bum needs to be in proportion. A rounded bum calls for rounded breasts, with a generous slope from waist to hip accentuating the delicious curves elsewhere. A massive butt on an otherwise flat body just isn't getting it done for me.

I hate to sound like I'm objectifying women here, but then I often think my mind probably isn't so different to a straight man's. We probably check out many of the same things when a pretty lady walks by. And granted, I love a beautiful pair of eyes, a gorgeous smile, an attractive head of hair, and all the rest, but when she walks by, my eyes follow those of my male friends to watch her hips sway and her cheeks move. Poetry in motion, to quote the great Thomas Dolby.

In fact, I'd say there are parts of a woman's body I admire, and others that I fetishise. Two that fall into the latter category are the backside and the feet. To a lesser extent, I have a thing for long, slender fingers -- all the better with short-cut nails. I'm certain that even my male friends can suss that one out.